An emotional reflection in first person about 20 years of marriage, the love that endures over time, and the little actions that keep the relationship alive. Includes practical tips for couples.

DEAR DEIDRE: I LOVE my husband, but I dread bedtime because he always wants sex and I rarely do. My drive has completely gone and I don’t think he understands it’s out of my control.

I do love my husband, but I also love this ex. I do not know what to do because this ex wants me to forget the life I’ve built and start over. I’ve made a decision to tell my husband, but I ...

I love my husband very much, but for reasons I don’t understand, I haven’t wanted to have sex with him for years. In the beginning, we were very passionate and his sex drive actually couldn ...

Advice; Asking Eric: I’ve told my husband I’m done, but he won’t move out because he thinks ‘marriage is forever’ Published: ; Feb. 22, 2025, 7:00 a.m.

DEAR ABBY: I’m a newlywed, and my husband and I have just hit a big roadblock. I hate the town we live in. I always have. The only reason I’m here is because of him, but I have always been ...

My husband stayed on the other side ideologically. To be fair, it must have felt we'd ganged up on him. Through it all, though, he has shown full, unwavering support and love for our children.

DEAR NOT QUITE: Because your husband’s teeth are a turn-off, you are going to have to address the problem. Wait until he is at or near his goal weight, then tell him that although you adore him ...

DEAR DEIDRE: I LOVE my husband, but I dread bedtime because he always wants sex and I rarely do. My drive has completely gone and I don’t think he understands it’s out of my control.